How do you know how far you can go - until you try to get to somewhere you have never been before? Too often people decide without even trying that they can’t do something just because they have never done it before. Crazy eh who would want to do that?
How Can You Possibly Know What You Can Do If You Have Never Tried.All it takes to achieve something new is to set the goal to get there and put realistic steps in place. Learn to not listen to negative messages in your head…it is just a bad habit you have got into and the more you listen to those inner voices the more negative you become. Before you know it you will be saying to yourself there is no use even trying because I know I won’t be able to do it. Control those negative thoughts before they control you.
With this defeatist attitude of course you won’t be able to.Learn new positive habits and train yourself to look for the outlook you want with a knowing that you can do it. Stop the woe-is-me stories that you tell yourself and others…don’t live as a victim. The more attempts you make to think positive thoughts, the more positive you become and that brings creative solutions to the situation. Only those who risk going too far can find out how far than can go. Always look ahead for the next journey you want to go on. We all have an Everest that we want to climb…find what it is for you. You can do remarkable things. You can be UNSTOPPABLE! You’ve got to want it more than you don’t want it. To win you have to love winning more than you hate losing. If you start fearing losing then you can be beaten because that is what you will be telling yourself. Everything you want in life you have to make a decision and every decision has a consequence. Learn to focus and visual what it is you want…see the whole journey in pictures…visualise all the steps and how will it make you feel. Sit next to a successful person – talk to them and learn what they have done….it cuts out a lot of wasted time and mistakes when you learn what not to do from them…their experience is priceless. You can do any damn thing you like if you have enough passion – enough commitment – are prepared to take risks – just go for your dream. You want to die with lots of memories not lots of unfulfilled dreams. Stand outside of yourself and take a good look at who you are and see how others would see you….If you were looking at you as another person - would you be happy with what you see, or is there anything you would want to change about this person? It is helpful to be able to see ourselves as others see us then we are more open to receive and accept compliments or take criticism as we know these are helpful when we take a constructed view of our life. There is no can’t …what you really mean is you won’t – humans can do remarkable things its all about attitude. Learn skills to create a brighter future, rather than just letting life happen to you. Create moments that will take your breath away….magical moments ….MAKE IT HAPPEN by living a limitless life and becoming an unstoppable person! Call me for a FREE chat I would love to help you find out How Far You Can Go!…. You will find my contact details at… www.karenjscott.co.nz